Revenge Is a Man’s Work

Confession: I like a good revenge story.

I mean, who doesn’t love a twisty tale of personal justice? In fact, my current work-in-progress has a significant revenge theme. And as with any manuscript I write, I tried to think of revenge stories (books or movies) that had a similar thread for comparison.

As I pondered the options, I began to notice a concerning trend. Most of the stories I could think of featured male main characters, some of whom are avenging female family members (Taken, e.g.). The ones with female main characters are centered on how they’ve been wronged by a man (First Wives’ Club, The Lauras), and more often than not, they’re humorous in nature (Fried Green Tomatoes). Liane Moriarty’s Big Little Lies comes close, but I’d consider that more self-defense than calculated revenge.

With a little research, I found more woman-led stories, but most of the women are teen girls (True Grit, Carrie) or highly-trained professionals (a detective or assassin, like Kill Bill). The average-Joe-gets-revenge narrative seems limited to men, for the most part. You know the theme I’m talking about, the one where the totally normal guy is wronged in some way and starts doing his research, creating a murder board with pictures and strings connecting them, gathering evidence as he plans his hit list.

I couldn’t find anything like that with a woman in the lead, so I asked my husband what he could think of. He mentioned Orphan Black and Killjoys, which are closer, but they’re sci-fi tales. They’re already squarely beyond reality, set within the realm of imagination. Is that the only place to find female revenge-seekers? Does a woman have to have special powers or live in an alternate universe to enact revenge?

I’m sure there are stories out there of average women getting revenge for an injustice not involving infidelity. I don’t claim to have read every book or seen every movie with a revenge theme. The problem is, those stories are harder to find. They don’t represent the revenge themes you find in popular tv shows and movies. In those, serious revenge is best left to the men.

And that bothers me. Of course it does.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for a “I’m gonna take out his cheating self” narrative, and I love a good sense of humor. But is that all women get? When it comes to mystery/suspense fiction, women are already more likely to be victims than heroes, more likely to need rescuing than to be the rescuer. The suspense world is full of books with that same old trope of the the pretty dead girl who needs a man to get justice for her. Yes, women tend to be more physically vulnerable, but statistically, men are more likely to be victims in every crime except rape. (Check out these stats, especially page 9.)

Maybe that’s why I feel compelled to create strong, intelligent female characters. I want women like me to be able to embrace a narrative in which women aren’t simply the victims but are the heroes of their own story. They say write what you know, and an intelligent woman at the helm of her own ship, that’s a reality I know.

The truth is, I’m lucky enough to have some incredible, strong women in my life. If I ever needed justice, my money’s on them to get it for me. Sure, there are some awesome men in my life too. But when it comes to taking care of business, there’s one thing I know for sure: don’t ever underestimate a woman.



  1. Chioma
    Mar 14, 2018 @ 03:24:32

    I really enjoyed this and absolutely agree with you, there’s a dearth of these sort of female heroines and we need more of them. Even if they were at one point victims, I would like to see them not only survive but thrive and not because of a man but because they took the matter in hand and saved themselves.


    • halee
      Mar 14, 2018 @ 03:45:31

      Well said! I saw a contest recently for books that have absolutely no female-centered violence/danger and I could see where they were going with that, but it runs the risk of silencing female perspectives altogether. Like you, I love seeing female characters come through something terrible and reclaim their power. The key is having an author who allows their fictional women the chance to thrive, the chance to be incredible not in spite of their gender but because of it.


  2. Laurie Tomlinson
    Mar 14, 2018 @ 08:25:44

    Have you seen Enough or Double Jeopardy? I loved both of those movies for good female badassery, but they may fall under the realm of self defense. I love that you’re doing a revenge plot and have every confidence that you will do it well!


    • halee
      Mar 14, 2018 @ 14:42:55

      Ooh, yes I have seen Enough! For some reason, I was thinking she was a cop but I guess that was a mental cross with Shades of Blue. I haven’t seen Double Jeopardy, but I looked up a description and it sounds like an awesome story.


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