Whenever something tragic happens, the focus is usually on the perpetrator—who he is and why he did what he did. And while those are important questions to answer, what I keep coming back to are the people who lost their lives. The victims.
I’ll be honest, I hate the word victims. I mean, I get it, it’s not inaccurate and headlines only have so much space. But I hate how it reduces vibrant humans, defining them by how their lives ended. (more…)
Confession: I cringe every time a tragedy occurs, and notÂ just because ofÂ the tragedy itself.
As if the loss of life isn’t devastating enough, what makes itÂ worse is the aftermath. The speculation, the debate, the blaming. In the blink of an eye, people’s deaths become a case study, supporting evidence for any number of agendas. People die, and the world explodes with theories ofÂ why it happened and how it could have been prevented.
I’m not saying that’s not a worthwhile discussion. It’s absolutelyÂ necessary to study tragedies to figure out how to prevent them. (more…)